Monday, 24 May 2021

🌹WHEN TO BE SILENT🌹



1.  Be silent In the heat of

     anger - 


2.  Be silent When you don't

     have all the facts-

     

3. Be silent If your words 

     will offend a weaker 

     person - 


4.Be silent When it is time 

     to listen -


5. Be silent If you would be 

     ashamed of your words 

     later -


6. Be silent If your words 

     would convey the wrong 

     impression -    


7. Be silent When you are 

      tempted to tell an 

      outright lie -


8. Be silent If your words 

      will damage someone 

      else's reputation -


9. Be silent If your words 

      will damage a friendship/ relationship- 

      


10. Be silent When you are 

      feeling critical -


11. Be silent If you can't say 

       it without screaming it -


12. Be silent If your words 

      will be a poor reflection 

      of the Lord or your 

      friends & family


13. Be silent If you may   

       have to eat your words 

       later -


 14. Be silent If you have 

       already said it MORE than ONE TIME- 

😏😔😔😢😢😏😏

Friday, 12 March 2021

Winners versus losers

 SOME DIFFERENCES BETWEEN WINNERS AND VICTORIES


 Winners focus on the solution.

 Losers focus on the problem.

 *

 Winners take responsibility.

 Losers blame others.

 *

 Winners find opportunities in times of crisis.

 Losers complain about the crisis.

 *

 Winners enjoy the present and learn from the past.

 Losers live in the past.

 *

 Winners make a decision and stick to it no matter what.

 Losers promise but never deliver.

 *

 Winners think about how they can achieve this.

 Losers ask for forgiveness.

 *

 Winners focus on their own development.

 Losers neglect personal development.

 *

 Winners face their fear and accept it, jump over and move on.

 Losers live in their own fears.

 *

 Winners are constantly expanding in and out of their comfort zone.

 Losers remain in their comfort zone.

 *

 Winners are constantly in action.

 Losers refrain from acting, they lack consistency.

 *

 Winners learn from their failures.

 Losers are afraid of failure, and they shy away from it for no reason.

 *

 Winners try different strategies when they don't get the results they planned.

 Losers do the same thing over and over again, expecting different results.

 *

 Winners set goals.

 The losers are lacking in purpose.

 *

 Winners plan and compose goals from intermediate goals.

 Losers don't like to have plans or dream of everything at once.

 *

 Winners know that there are always things to learn.

 The losers consider themselves experts everywhere, but they know little nonetheless.

 *

 The winners are humble.

 Losers are selfish.

 *

 Winners continue to hone their skills every day without indulgence.

 Losers want everything effortlessly.

 *

 Winners are good at using their time and indulge in activities that will lead them to achieve their goals.

 Losers lack time management, indulge in activities like playing games and watch their endless replays trying to give them up.


Sunday, 7 February 2021

The body parts are not available in market

 1. The *STOMACH*

     is injured when

     you do not have

     breakfast in the

     morning.


2. The *KIDNEYS*

     are injured when

     you do not even

     drink 10 glasses

     of water in 24

     hours.


3. *GALLBLADDR* 

    is injured when

    you do not even

    sleep until 11

    o'clock and do not

    wake up to the

    sunrise.


4.  The *SMALL*

     *INTESTINE* is

      injured when you

      eat cold and stale

      food.


5.  The *LARGE*

     *INTESTINES* are

      injured when you

      eat more fried

      and spicy food.


6.  The *LUNGS* are

      injured when you

      breathe in smoke

      and stay in

      polluted

      environment of

      cigarettes.


7. The *LIVER* is

     injured when you

     eat heavy fried

     food, junk, and

     fast food.


8. The *HEART* is

     injured when you

     eat your meal with

     more salt and

     cholesterol.


9. The *PANCREAS*

     is injured when

     you eat sweet

     things because

     they are tasty and

     freely available.


10. The *Eyes* are

       injured when you

      work in the light

      of mobile phone

      and computer

      screen in the

      dark.


11. The *Brain* is

       injured when you

       start thinking

       negative

       thoughts.


12. The *SOUL* gets

       injured when you

       don't have family

       and friends to

       care and share

       with you in life

       their love,

       affection,

       happiness,

       sorrow and joy. 


     *All these body*

      *parts are NOT*

      *available in the*

      *market*. 


      So take good

      care and keep

      your body parts

      healthy.


     *Wish You all a*

      *very Happy &*

      *Healthy Life*

Thursday, 31 December 2020

The ending notes 2020

 Finally, Just 1day to the end of 2020.!!

To My Creator = *I  say Thank  You.* 

To my true friends = *I appreciate  you all.*

To those who showed me love = *I'm grateful.*

To those who hurt me = *I  forgive  and forget.* 

To those I really hurt = *I'm so sorry, please forgive me.* 

To those who challenged me = *lets do it again.*

To those I showed love to = *I still love you and I ALWAYS WILL.*                                                                              To those who helped me =  *I am so grateful and will reciprocate in due season.* 

THANK YOU FOR MAKING 2020 A SAFE & FRUTFUL YEAR 4 ME.

*WISHING  YOU  A  PROSPEROUS  2021 AHEAD.*🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐💞💞

Monday, 28 December 2020

The Parents House


*The Parents' house* 

*It's the only house* where you can go to dozens of times without an invitation. 

*The only house* where you can put the key in the door and enter directly. 

*The house* that has loving eyes that stare at the Đoor until they see you. 

*The house* which reminds you of your stability and your happiness during your Chîldhood. 

*The house* in which your presence and look  at your mother and father faces is for you a worship and your conversation with them is a reward.

*The house* that if you do not go, the hearts of its owners will shrink, and if you hurt them,  they will be angry.

*The house* in which two candles were burnt to light up the world and fill your life with håppinēss and joy.

*the house* where the dining table is pure for you and has no hypocrisy. 

*the house* that if the food time arrives and you don't eat, the hearts of its owners will be broken and annoyed.

*The house* that offers you all the laughs and Håppinēss.

*Ôh Chîldrēn*, find out the value of these houses before it's too late. 

 *Lucky are those who has their parents house to go to*

*More Lucky are those children whose parents resides with them.*

Tuesday, 8 December 2020

Question and Answers

 A shaman was asked:

What is poison?

- Anything beyond what we need is poison.

It can be power, laziness, food, ego, ambition, vanity, fear, anger, or whatever.


What is fear?

- Non-acceptance of uncertainty.

If we accept uncertainty, it becomes adventure.


What is envy?

- Non-acceptance of good in the other.

If we accept good, it becomes inspiration.


What is anger?

- Non-acceptance of what is beyond our control.

If we accept, it becomes tolerance.


What is hate?

- Non-acceptance of people as they are.

If we accept unconditionally, it becomes love.

Monday, 30 November 2020

THE GURU

 When words create peace it becomes mantra 

When actions results in peace it is tantra 

When sounds results in peace it is music 

When sights results in peace within it is darshan

 When sitting results in peace it is yoga

When mind is quiet it is dhyan or meditation

When breath results in inner peace it is vaasi 

When sakthi creates peace within it is kundalini 

The one name who could generate peace within it is called

GURU

Saturday, 14 November 2020

Inner Deepawali

 DIWALI WITH A DIFFERENCE


This Diwali, 

instead of wearing a new dress, 

can I change the way I address people?


This Diwali, 

instead of cleaning an already clean house, 

can I work on scrubbing my dusty heart?


This Diwali, 

instead of lighting up my doorway, 

can I question my pathway to ignorance?


This Diwali, 

instead of stuffing myself with sweets,

can I give up the bitterness in my heart?


This Diwali, 

instead of bursting crackers, 

can I burst my egoistic pride?


The day I do all this, 

The Divine will quietly walk into my heart ....

or 

Else with all the noise, 

I may celebrate Diwali....

but sans my Divinity !!!!!

Friday, 6 November 2020

GIVER IS SOMEONE ELSE


Tulsidas came to know about a unique behaviour of Rahim. While giving alms to the poor, Rahim gave with extreme humility.

While giving, he kept his gaze downwards towards the earth.  He never looked at the person he was giving alms to.

Tulsidas promptly wrote the following couplet and sent it to Rahim.

“ऐसी देनी देंनज्यूँ, कित सीखे हो सैन
जयोंज्यों कर ऊंच्यो करो, त्योंत्यों निचे नैन”

“O great person, where have you learnt this amazing way of giving? As your hands rise (to give), your eyes look down”

Completing the couplet which Tulsidas wrote, Rahim replied in extreme humility.

His reply shows how evolved Rahim was as a soul.

“देनहार कोई और है, भेजत जो दिन रैन
लोग भरम हम पर करे, तासो निचे नैन”

“The Giver is someone else (the God almighty), giving day and night. The world has a misconception that I am the giver. So, I lower my eyes in embarrassment.”

Sunday, 27 September 2020

A Leaking bucket


~ You wake up early morning trying to do your Pooja / Prayers /Yoga but your mind is elsewhere and before you know it, you're done with it, without being mindful of it. 

(A leaking bucket)


~ You're very kind to outsiders / people in general and speak with them gently, but with your own family you're always harsh / rude.                                                                                                                                                       (A leaking bucket)


~ You honour and treat your guests well but when they leave, you gossip about them and talk about their flaws.

 (A leaking bucket)


~ You try to read as much religious books, listen to Satsang /Keertan, participate in social services/ Sewa but you swear,  insult, curse daily. 

(A leaking bucket)


~ You help others but you're doing it to gain something in return from them and not doing those acts of kindness selflessly. 

(A leaking bucket)


~ You frequently advice/preach others, but practice none yourself. 

(A leaking bucket)


~ You slander other devout persons out of hatred/spite when your views do not meet one another.

 (A leaking bucket)


~ You look down on others and feel more superior than them, judging their level of knowledge, based on external appearances.

 (A leaking bucket) 


We struggle to fill our "lives"  (the bucket) with "earnings" of religion and knowledge (the water), hoping it will retain inside but it is leaked by the many flaws (the holes) that we commit daily.


An excellent reminder for all, *including myself*, to try and patch these holes up so we may progress further on this beautiful path of life.

Friday, 11 September 2020

The ball doesn’t know how old I am”.

 Martina Navratilova was once asked, “How do you maintain your focus, physique and sharp game even at the age of 43?" 

She gave a humble reply, “The ball doesn’t know how old I am”. 

Saturday, 22 August 2020

Dont wait...

 🍃🌼🍃.⁀⋱‿. 🍃 🌼🍃.⁀⋱‿. 🍃


Don’t wait for time. ~ Make it.


Don’t wait for love. ~ Feel it.


Don’t wait for money ~ Earn it.


Don’t wait for the path ~ Find it.


Don’t wait for opportunity. ~ Create it.


Don’t go for less. ~ Get the best.


Don’t compare ~ Be unique


Don’t fight your misfortune. ~ Transform it.


Don’t avoid failure. ~ Use it.


Don’t dwell on a mistake. ~ Learn from it.


Don’t back down. ~ Go around.


Don’t close your eyes ~ Open your mind.


Don’t run from life. ~ Embrace it.


Tuesday, 26 May 2015

Thursday, 21 May 2015

'Less' life of 21sth century

Life of 21st century

Phone-cordless
cooking-fire less
food - fat-less
dress - sleeveless
youth - jobless
leaders - shameless
government - hopeless
job- thankless
police -clueless
policies -aimless
conduct -worthless
relations -meaningless
 attitude - careless
feelings -heartless
education - valueless
arguments - baseless
days -restless
nights - sleepless
future -directionless
still expectations -Endless!

Monday, 31 March 2014

Count your blessings

Count Your Blessings
By Kelly Johnston
Count your blessings instead of your crosses;
Count your gains instead of your losses.
Count your joys instead of your woes;
Count your friends instead of your foes.
Count your smiles instead of your tears;
Count your courage instead of your fears.
Count your full years instead of your lean;
Count your kind deeds instead of your mean.
Count your health instead of your wealth;
Love your neighbor as much as yourself

Saturday, 29 March 2014

Voice Inside

There is a voice inside of you
That whispers all day long,
"I know that this is right for me
I know that this is wrong"
No teacher,preacher,parent,friend
Or wise man can decide
What's right for you-just listen to
The voice that speaks inside.
Unknown

Tuesday, 14 January 2014

Gain and loss of Meditation

Buddha was asked,"What have you gained from meditation?"
He replied "Nothing!"
However Buddha said,"Let me tell you what I lost:
Anger,Anxiety,Depression,Insecurity,Fear of old age, and Death."

Sunday, 15 December 2013

If you..

If you think positively,
Sound becomes Music,
Movement becomes Dance,
Smile becomes Laughter,
Mind becomes Meditation,
And Life becomes Celebration
Unknown

Tuesday, 5 November 2013

All god things are yours

Fear less; hope more.
Eat less; chew more.
Sigh less; breathe more.
Hate less; love more,
and all good things are yours.

-- Swedish Proverb

Tuesday, 1 October 2013

Life your best life

It only takes a moment
To stop and take a breath
To take in all the sights ,and sounds
To enjoy all life has to give
Dont take time for granted
Because it quickly slips away
Years cannot be promised
So enjoy every single day
Time and life are precious
and we only get one chance
To live life to its fullest
To live in happiness
Live your best life
Starting with today
Make sure its a happy one
Every step of the way


Author unknown



courtesy:cathie barash's blog