I stumbled upon this when i was surfing randomly.Its a great wisdom piece for women.When i read it,the first reaction that i gave out was,"This makes sense!".So i am sharing especially for all my sisters around the world.And ladies trust me,you'll thank your stars for reading this.
courtesy: an amazing website called devinemiracles.com
Below is a note especially for the ladies ( but men may benefit from this) written by a man.It is called:
"If A Man Wants You"
' If a man wants you,nothing can keep him away,
if he doesn't want you ,nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man & his behavior
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache
Stop trying to change your self for a relationship that's
not meant to be-slower is better
Never live your life for a man until you find out what truly
makes you happy.
If a relationship Ends because the man was not treating you
as you deserve,then heck no,you can't be friends!
A friend would not mistreat a friend.
Don't settle-if you feel like he is stringing you along,he probably is
Don't stay because you think "It will get better" You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are NOT better!
The only person you can control in a relationship is you!
Avoid men with a bunch of children with different women,
He didn't marry them-why would he treat you differently?
Always have your own set of friends,separate to his.
Maintain boundaries in how a man treats you
If something bothers you,SPEAK UP!
Never let a man know everything,he will use it against you later!
You can not change a mans behavior
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel more important than you are
He is a man ,nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are!
Never borrow someone else's man,
if he cheated with you,he will cheat ON you!
A man will only treat you how you ALLOW yourself to be treated
All men are not dogs!
You should not be the one doing all the bending,
Compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships,
there is nothing CUTE about baggage!
Deal with your issues BEFORE pursuing a new Relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you,
A relationship consists of two whole individuals-
Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.
Dating is fun! Even if he dost turn out to be MR Right!
Make him miss you sometimes-when a man knows where you are
& your always readily available-he takes it for granted!
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything you need
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies!
It will make someone SMILE, another RETHINK ,and another PREPARE!
